I think my therapist hit on me?

Advice Wanted

Hey y’all I’m wanting some advice on how to move forward. To get things right out, it was my first session with her and I’ve already found a new therapist that I’m looking to have a session with. Regardless of anything else it made me super uncomfortable and I will not be going back to her.

Here’s what happened:
I’m a 21 year old guy who has a really bad relationship with bugs, I just moved into an apartment that had roaches and despite the fact that they are gone I am still filled with anxiety. I sought, and am seeking, therapy to help figure out how to deal with these feelings. Now the reason I’m mentioning why I’m seeking therapy is because what she said to me was entirely unrelated to why I was there. I had my appt last night, and things were okay for most of it. I wasn’t huge on her to begin with, but I felt like I got some good advice towards the end, until she asked if I had a girlfriend. I told her I didn’t, and she told me that that seemed wrong because I was “adorable,” and further pushed the subject, saying she thought girls would be all over me and that I would have no trouble. Trying to get this over with, I told her that I had gotten the “wait you’re not gay” line a few times (I am bi but prefer women) and maybe that’s just why, to which she retorted that the only reason people may have thought that is because I was “so good looking” and that I “can’t help that.” I’m really not trying to toot my own horn here, I am not an attractive guy. I’m very overweight. She went on about this for several minutes before the moving on.

Now what I’m wondering, is this something I should report? Is this something I can report? How and to who would I even do that? I’ll share any other important info, but I live in Wisconsin if that helps.

Posted May 28, 2026, 5:13 PM UTC

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