How can I find better job than 45k/year in 30s with college degree?

My job pays under 45k/year I don’t mind the money but it’s 2 hour commute, and way too busy. Some days I don’t have time for 10 minute break for a 8 hour day, and always working nonstop at a busy bank. I have a college degree B.S, however I applied anywhere else no one hire me.

Where I live has no job market, but I’m married have kid as a mom, our family cannot move. And my husband and I don’t have saving, we can’t move either.

I can’t even go to grad school because the long commute exhausting me and my job gives me headaches. All I want after work is sleep.

How can I get a better situation?