22 [M4F] #UK/Germany/Europe - Nerdy guy looking for my kinky childfree life partner age 18-22 (I’m open to relocating in Europe)

This post is likely going to be quite long so please bear with me! Please make sure that you’ve read it all before you reach out, if you decide to. If you think we’re a good match then please don’t hesitate to send me a chat and tell me a bit about yourself just like I’ve done here, I can’t wait to hear from you! (Please only reach out if you’re serious about wanting a relationship)

A bit about Me:

I'm 22 and live just outside of London in the UK.

I'm childfree by choice and plan to get a vasectomy at some point in the future, I’m not sure when exactly I’ll get around to it but ideally sooner rather than later. Once I'm sterile, I'll be getting it tested every six months to be safe. I also don’t want to have pets in the future.

I'm 5'10 or 178 cm.

Right now I work in a pub and I’ve been there for a few months, I enjoy it most of the time and it works for me right now while I’m just trying to save some money. I have a Computer Science degree, and my long-term goal is to be a software engineer, currently when I have time I try to just keep my programming skills fresh although it’s not a huge focus right now however it will soon be because my goal is to be ready to start seriously job searching for my first career job by the end of the year at the latest, I’m under no illusion though that it’ll be quick or easy as the job market right now is frankly awful. I would not consider myself very career-oriented; while I want to do well for myself, I definitely value work-life balance the most.

I'm neurodivergent and quite introverted. I definitely value my quiet time, although I can be quite outgoing as well around the right people. I'd say I'm quite laid back and I have very little tolerance for things like yelling when it comes to a relationship at least so I'd like to say I'm good at communicating and working things out.

I'm financially literate and responsible with money, I hope to eventually retire early in the future.

I'm not religious.

I’m working on learning German atm for a hobby, it’s been an on and off thing for about a year and I’m still extremely beginner, I’m trying to take it more seriously though and I would like to eventually be able to read and speak it well if not fluently, my interest in it started a few years ago when I wanted to start going on trips by myself and I wanted to start with a country that was similar to home so I chose Germany and I ended up falling in love with it and I’ve visited 3 times now and been to a decent handful of cities.

I like to travel. I’ve been to seven countries so far, mostly in Europe but I’ve also been to the US, I like sightseeing and travelling like that but I also enjoy more relaxing holidays as well, I want to travel all over the world in future, like in Europe I really want to go to France and Italy at some point soon and I also want to go to Germany again and try and visit some smaller cities and towns this time because I’ve only been to major cities so far, I also really want to go to Japan, China (especially Hong Kong), South Korea, Thailand etc. Just all kinds of places really.

My long term goal is to live in a big city (or at the very least near to one), doesn’t have to be an enormous city like London but just not one that’s too small, I haven’t actually been to that many British cities but I’ve been to quite a few German ones, Hamburg is definitely my favourite but I also love Berlin and quite like Munich although not as much as the other two but I wouldn’t be opposed to it, I haven’t been to many other European cities yet, I’m not necessarily picky on which city it just has to have a decent job market for tech.

NSFW wise, I have a very high sex drive and am definitely on the dominant side when it comes to my sexuality. Admittedly my experience is quite limited like I am a virgin for example but I do have some experience with other things, I have a range of kinks that I enjoy, some that I have experience with and others that I want to try. Specific things I'm into, which I have experience with, are facefucking, throatpies, facials and rimming (both giving and receiving), I like a bit of spanking too. Things I don't have experience with but want to try are anal, cockwarming etc. I do love giving oral in general although I’m not very experienced with it. I’m open to a more D/s style relationship dynamic if that’s something you want although I’m not a strict kind of dom guy at all so it would look more like me just taking a more leading role in the relationship rather than some mad 24/7 thing where I control everything because that sounds very exhausting to me!

I'm very affectionate. I can't get enough of cuddles, I'll absolutely tell you I love you constantly, compliment you, etc.

I’m very nerdy overall, I’m a big gamer although I did lose interest in it for a few years I’m fully back into it now, I’m a console gamer, I did have a PS5 for a long time but I sold it last year which I do now regret and would like to get another one at some point, at the moment I just play on my old PS4. I’m mostly into single player games at this point, I love open world games and RPGs and just anything with a good story in general, my favourite game series is Yakuza or Like a Dragon, I’m currently playing Ishin which is the samurai spin off of Yakuza and I’m massively enjoying it. I’m a big trophy hunter as well, I currently have 62 platinum trophies. Outside of gaming I’m a big Star Wars fan although I haven’t been keeping up with the shows so I do have a lot to catch up on, I also love horror movies as well.

I would like to get married eventually; however, I absolutely do not want to have a wedding. I know that's a bit forward to say right away, but I just want to make sure I'm not wasting anyone's time if that's something that's important to them. 

What I'm Looking For:

You're 18-22 years old and are in the UK or Germany especially but other European countries like Sweden, Denmark, and the Netherlands also fine. I’m happy to eventually relocate and in the meantime I’m more than happy to do long distance and visit you and for you to visit me. If you’re willing to relocate here then I don’t mind where in Europe you are at all.

You're firmly childfree (you do not have or ever want to have children). If you’ve been sterilised or want to in the future that is a big plus but it's not a hard requirement. You also don’t want to have pets.

You want to travel the world with me in the future.

I would prefer if you’re not super career oriented

I’m open to people of many different body types.

You are not very family orientated.

You are not religious.

You don't smoke or take drugs.

You, just like me, have a very high sex drive, are sexually submissive and into the same kinks as me and in general are open minded and willing to try new things, it doesn’t matter if you have any experience or not, just that you’re open to exploring with me and having a good time in general. 

Ideally, you're also introverted like me.

If you have some nerdy interests that’s definitely a plus.

If you’re neurodivergent as well that’s something we could connect on but it doesn’t matter at all if you’re not.

Like me, you're want to get married in the future but don't want a wedding/don't care about having one.

You have a calm personality and are a good communicator, as I said before I really do not like yelling in relationships so I'm looking for the type of relationship where we can just discuss everything calmly and work things out if we have an issue.

You are also a very affectionate person.

You're financially literate or are open to learning so that we can work on building wealth and retiring early together.