I need advice on whether to end it or not 31F

TL;DR

Hi everyone!

My bf 25M have had our ups and downs we have been together for almost a year but have known each other for 3 years because we have been in a situationship before that. There have been some issues arising such as timelines. I want to get married have kids in a couple years and he isn't sure and other things. Something else that has been bothering me is that on Valentines Day he got me 1 rose when you know I was expecting him to go a little bigger at least a bouquet and he sensed that I was a little disappointed. I told him how I felt and he then got me another 1 rose a few weeks later and didn't "react" well. Now he told me because of that he isn't going to get me any flowers at all for a long time because I am not appreciative of them. I think that is silly and stubborn and makes me sad because I do things for him all the time such as cook, wash his car for him and get him little things. Something else is that he won't post me on Instagram because he likes his relationship to be private. He doesn't really post at all to begin with and rarely posts on his stories. He doesn't share his location with me because he did in the past when we were in the situationship and I asked him to remove me because I was checking it to much. Now, I asked him too and he refuses. There are a lot of things to unpack here and I wanted your guys' advice.

Basically, i'm wondering if these are small things that can be overlooked or am I blind and these are bigger deals. We are about to hit a year together and we also live together so I have been thinking a lot about our relationship. He is a great guy and we have a lot of fun together but thinking about the long term is what I'm not sure about.

Thanks guys please be nice ❤️