i need help :( i had a dream and I’m confused

I met my best friend at university whilst I was studying law six years ago.

We’ve been friends ever since, and although there were some tense moments between us (we kissed once at a party in 2023), that was the end of it.

He met his current partner around the same time and they moved in together. I was really happy for them, and I found a partner too.

He now has a young daughter (5 months).

Three weeks ago, I had a dream about my best friend. We were sitting on a bench in a park, and out of the blue we started kissing and ended up having sex. I woke up scared and very shaken (I had an orgasm)

The very next day I bumped into him and it was really awkward for me. Ever since he had his daughter, I’ve started to find him more attractive and I don’t know what to do.

I need opinions, complaints, suggestions, insults – anything

Posted May 30, 2026, 1:46 AM UTC

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