DEBATE: People often shame AM because we sleep with unknown person but same people find random stranger hookup in club cool

not a pro arrange marriage guy here , but i see people shame AM so down by saying that you have to sleep with some random stranger at first night , it is like a transaction deal girl side see money and boy side see girls beauty

isnt same analogy goes to random club hookup with stranger after few drinks ? here girl see attractiveness boy and boy bus ladki hone chahiyeh getting free fun but this is somehow get less shamed thank AM.

yess we are here not tlaking about other factor of AM