Acting out using anger at good people

I have not been action out in the usual way, I have sought out sex I have used anger and gone after the good people still in my life, one person in particular. This person has only tried to help me and get me to wake up. They have called me on the horrible person I have made a choice to be and I come at them in a passive aggressive way and pick a fight so we argue. When asked a question about my sex addiction or about my emotions I talk in circles or in vague terms be cause I don’t want to answer or I don’t like what we are talking about. I know I do it to try and frustrate them into not wanting to talk about it. They are going through a tough time now with family issues, their health and financial struggles and don’t need me making things harder but that hasn’t stopped me from coming at them. In a time I should be helping to relieve the stress and worry they are under I’m adding to it and try to make everything about me. Thank you all for letting me share.