Illness denying orgasms

I have a chronic health condition. Firstly, it gives me ED. Secondly, it impacts how much my shrimp dick can feel. This basically means I haven't been able to orgasm from PiV sex for 8-9 years now. And here's the kicker, it's a condition that's far more prevalent in white people than in black people. My own body, and I'm sure this is true for other whitebois, has decided I don't deserve normal sex, whether I want it or not. I only cum using a vibe wand now as I can do that without the need to get hard.

Anyone else in a similar boat?