Help!!! My girlfriend might be pregnant and I am freaking out, what should be done now?
I (21M) and her (20F) met on april 21st. We did our deed and used protection everything was good. she had her last period in april 1st week. Its been 50 days since her period came out.
We thought it was just period delay as we used protection. Day by Day anxiety is increasing,
I was pestering her to get pregnancy test done, she didnt wanted she didnt want to go thru that, we fought over that and didnt speak for 2 days.
now she is ready to get pregnancy test done. we will be going to some mall to get it done as she cant at her home.
Now, the advice I want is what to do if she did turn out pregnant??? she will be in her 9th week if she did turn out to be pregnant.
are pills safe to take? my friend suggested we take something called "unwanted kit" tablet.
should I buy her that?
I heard that those pills have extreme side effects like heavy bleeding nausea fever etc.
How can she manage at home??? what will she tell her parents about her sickness and heavy bleeding and pain???
as I boyfriend, I am only limited to taking her to a doctor and getting her pills, I feel helpless that she has to deal all that at home while also trying to trick parents...
I am afraid for tomorrow....
Only risk I could think of even after using protection is, I wore the condom while I was hard, she felt some discomfort we stopped for a while, I lost my boner and again after a while I got hard again. In this period I wore the same condom.
Matter of fact, I didnt even finish inside her even while wearing a condom. Idk chances are low but i am still freaking about the "what if" part
Posted Jun 2, 2026, 1:10 PM UTC