I hate how I always get downvoted, and hated it if I ever mentioned that women can also harm others, and point out my own experiences, it's not that I am generalizing women. I never generalize anyone at all. 

I'm venting about something that happened a while ago, someone on a girl sub asked, how's marriage like, to married women. She asked married women alright, and I'm married and half of the comments were unmarried women talking about how marriage is miserable.

The only other comment about a married woman was also pleasant, and someone replied with, "you got lucky".

Whatever okay, I made a comment stating that I have an extremely happy marriage, and the time I felt "regret" or felt like I made a mistake, when I sat and reflected upon myself like a mature adult, I realised a lot of what I thought was only in my head, because genuinely my husband did so much for me, and I was pretty ungrateful cuz of the subtle misandrists and their remarks, I was very entitled, believed whatever my husband did for me I automatically deserved it although he went out of his way to do most things for me and to keep me happy.

I shared this piece of experience, in a way to improve other people's opinions on marriage, because yes some women are truly neglected, but more than often it's not bad to look in the mirror to see what can be fixed, because it's us against the world and not him vs me right? 

This particular girl and her comments were so disgusting, I can't, why is it so bad to call women to hold themselves accountable? While women do face a lot of domestic abuse they aren't complete angels either? 

Is accountability foreign to us? Swipe for context