I have zero wedding blues

I got married on Saturday and it was hands down the best day of my life. I did not feel like I missed a moment. I did not feel like I blinked and it was over. I got eat my dinner and drink my drinks. It was a fairy tale. My husband and I planned an event that we would have wanted to attend. We made sure our guests knew that while they were there for our wedding, we were only there because of the love they’ve given and shown us. You can plan an amazing wedding, but it was people that made it memorable.

If I can give new brides advice. Don’t worry about the little things. If you plan a wedding based on how it’s going to look in photos you’re going about it wrong. If you try to over control your guest list and plus ones, you’re going about it wrong. If your day isn’t authentic to you, your guests will feel it. Your bachelorette doesn’t matter, and your wedding isn’t ruined if your bustle breaks. What matters is at the end of the day you make a promise to the love or life to stand by their sad in good times and bad. Everything else is just gravy.