being a straight girl with this kink is difficult

for frankly innumerable reasons, but largely because it’s damn near impossible to find a guy irl who’s actually receptive to this. i feel that the kink scene is so much more welcoming in the lgbtq+ community (which makes sense, as that’s largely where kink originated; im not trying to diminish that) and it honestly has me feeling iced out at times. yeah, this subreddit is fairly active, but irl? it’s a ghost town and an occasional tumbleweed. ive had women friends who i talk about kink with offer to fart dom me, but that sadly doesn’t do anything for me. most of the content is also queer, except for what’s in this sub. anyway, this is just a fed up vent that i needed someplace to put. advice welcome if you have any.