Why is it so hard to find real people in this community?

I’m looking for someone to grab a coffee and have a real candid conversation with, but the vibe here feels like nobody is actually looking for that.

Everyone seems so focused on the superficial or the next thing.

It’s pretty disappointing to see a community like this lack any real depth. If I’m wrong and there’s anyone here who actually wants to have a normal, human conversation no networking no games let me know...