9 months ago, update

https://www.reddit.com/r/Marriage/comments/1n4jk1d/spouse_is_cheating_rumor/

9 months ago I posted about my wife and this rumor. There were posts with updateme in them.

I'm filing for divorce soon. I asked for one two months ago, she shaped up for a while but regressed bigly the past 10 days. She's moved to her dads this week for a "break" or some time apart. She doesn't seem to realize it is coming based on her attempts to communicate today.

As far as the original post goes, she continued to do her "work" for him after this. She got caught lying about a family member in the hospital, needed to go see them, but instead went to this guys' place. Wouldn't cut contact, maintains no affair. She doesn't understand, that even if they aren't having sex (who knows), this is cheating and lying to me.

Have had a lot of big talks between now and then. I hope it can be amicable, but after telling my folks, who are very supportive of me, it just sounds like she's sick in the head and won't get better.

I was just looking at our old photos together. It is a shame, she used to be so happy and cheerful and pleasant. But now, the trust is gone. She's bitter, mean, and ungrateful.

I'm so full of grief thinking about the past. I haven't even filed yet, and I want to just write her a check and get a 50/50 custody agreement and get on with my life w/out her tomorrow!