Submitting, does the pain the pain ease up or do you deal with it?

Tagged as NSFW cause im going to go in detail. Hi everyone, happy pride! I just have a question. Does the pain that comes with submitting go away or do I need to get used to it. So for context i just turned 18 so ive been hoing around a bit but ive been very active for awhile. I am a very submissive bottom. Im 5'1, 160, I have a bubble butt and a tiny dick, so to say that tops are rough with me is an understatement😅 I want to please more often but I seem to need 3 or 4 days to recover after sex, not just my hole but my whole body. Most of the guys that I mess around with want to do things daily or multiple times a day but I hurt. I want to be a better sub. Does it get better or do I need to learn to deal with it? Thank you!