Brutal truth for WLWcels

Women are pickier than men sexually, men are pickier in every other facet.

Women have to be fully aroused in order to engage in sex. Our vaginal canals expand at peak arousal along with the increased production of natural lubricant. Without being actually aroused, our vaginas are prone to painful friction and closed off, which makes penetration painful and heavy clitoral stimulation more uncomfortable than pleasurable.

This is why women are used for sex and men aren’t as much. Men are easily aroused and don’t have to worry about painful sex from not enough arousal. They can put a bag over your head or close their eyes and imagine a woman they actually want while they basically masturbate using your body. Pump and dump, done.

Men using ugly women for sex isn’t a privilege, however, I can acknowledge that. Men are way pickier in who they actually respect and treat affectionately. They cheat/leave whenever a prettier woman is near them. Men commit to top tier women only. Being a temporary maid/flashlight for someone who doesn’t even fully want you is a nightmare. Non-affectionate sex with someone you don’t know very well is often uncomfortable and non-arousing for women, so that’s why most ugly women don’t engage in casual sex. It has no benefit for the woman.

I’ve given up on relationships completely, dating as an ugly person will lead to your partner resenting you and eventually leaving. Doesn’t matter if you’re man or woman, gay/straight/bi. It’s universal. Whenever boredom sets in or any relationship discord ensues, they’ll look at you and think “why am I even with you, if I’m going to put up with this bs I’d rather have something nice to look at”.

BUT…

I wish women were more like men in the sense that they’ll fuck anything. I’d even be a stone top/touch-me-not atp. I’ve tried bars and apps, women just can’t get aroused looking at me. I’m in college rn and once I can relocate and actually get a job (my area has one of the worst employment rates in the entire US, especially youth unemployment), I think I’m just going to hire escorts and still go with the touch-me-not thing because I know they don’t actually want to fuck me.

Atp I’d love to be used for sex but women just aren’t wired that way where they can be aroused and ready to go on the spot. Women have to actually LIKE you somewhat in order to get aroused. And I’m not just talking about penetration I’m talking about oral too. Oral without arousal isn’t that pleasurable because the clit has to be “activated” in order for stimulation to actually feel good (idk how else to put it).

It’s over for me. Gonna cope by binge-watching Fucking Åmål/Show Me Love, Imagine Me & You, Loving Annabelle, and But I’m a Cheerleader for the millionth time. Some pride month 😒…