signs of being love bombed?

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i know everyone’s relationship has different timelines and milestones, however I wanted to know from someone else’s point of view if my relationship is organic or if i’m being love bombed. since this is my first relationship and i don’t exactly know what the requirements are.

he is a very good person but i still can’t help but have my guard up because of the ways we came about. we talked for 3 weeks and he asked me out. i’ve already met his parents and he’s met my family. at the 3 week mark of dating he already said i love you. we haven’t done anything physical or intimate so it kinda gives me peace of mind that he loves me for me and not my body. (i think)

i think what is still keeping my guard up is the fact that we started talking 4 months after he broke up with his ex of 1.5years. i even asked him if that’s enough time to get over someone you dated for that long and he said he’s checked out the relationship long before he actually broke up with her. and between those 4 months of breaking up till meeting me he’s had talking stages with other girls. and during our talking stage he kept saying im exactly his type im exactly the person he’s looking for. and including me in his future plans. i know it could be a form of reassurance but it still feels kinda fast to be moving on from someone you dated for 1.5years. but that’s personally my opinion

i even called him out and straight up asked if he was love bombing me. he said he wasn’t and that wasn’t in his character, which i believe, and how our relationship feels genuine compared to his past relationship which felt like infatuation.

i really do want to let my guard down and fully trust him bc he’s a really good person except i can’t help but feel a certain way about our timeline and milestones. can someone give me some advice on whether this is normal or i should slam on the brakes

Posted Jun 3, 2026, 1:39 AM UTC

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