41 [M4F] NYC - Looking for someone local

Who I am:

I'm a married man, mostly happy in his relationship, who nonetheless feels a longing inside himself. It's a combination longing for affection, intimacy, someone new to be close with.

I'm fairly good looking, though I wouldn't expect to turn every head as I walk down the street. I have a nice smile, a great sense of humor. I'm intelligent, interesting, and pretty chill to be around. I'm thin and fairly athletic, so no dad bod on me.

What I'm looking for:

Most likely someone younger than myself. I prefer cute to hot, and have a weak spot for tiny, awkward girls. Ideally you're also fairly intelligent and have a sense of humor. I also like people who are good communicators, and enjoy talking throughout the day as much as possible. If you're monosyllabic, we probably won't hit it off. And I'm absolutely only interested in locals, as distance isn't my thing.

I don't mind if you've got baggage; we all do. I do, however, ask that if we've been talking and you change your mind, or get cold feet, or whatever – tell me instead of ghosting me. At this point, I've got proper PTSD over getting ghosted by people I was really starting to like. It hurts, and it sucks. Please have the ladyballs to tell me you've changed your mind. I'll understand.

What I'm into:

I definitely lean dominant, but am more of a soft dom. I prefer leading in bed, and some mild rough stuff can be fun, spanking, light choking, that sort of thing. What I'm not is into degradation, or anything along those lines.

I'm very into oral sex, giving as much as receiving. One of my favorite things, honestly. In a perfect world, we're both tested and you're on some form of birth control, and we can just shag like bunnies as often as possible without a care in the world. Certainly not a requisite, but a man can dream.

I will say one more thing: I've had innumerable people attempt to catfish me, so if we do seem to be hitting it off, down the line, I'll likely ask for some sort of verification. Doesn't have to be a face picture, just something hard to fake. I'm also very leery of sending face pictures in general, since I've had a few people attempt to dox me using them.

Anywho! If you think we might be a good match, then send me a message. And if you read this far, tell me the most recent book you read as well, and what you thought of it. Can't wait to hear from you.