Fiance of 6 years watches a ton of red pill content

About two years into our relationship I saw a bunch of red pill content liked and saved all over my bfs youtube account from a mra called the poor man's podcast reacts. The videos were of a man with misogynistic views blaming single mothers, sex workers, and feminism for basically all the world's problems. My bf would constantly talk about women doing onlyfans and how it was ruining society but he also thought it was okay for men to watch porn. He wants to control me and I think its because of the red pill content. I already cook and clean for him and stay thin and do my makeup for him but he still complains about how im not submissive enough. He says I dont want to follow him and will threaten to dump me for not doing what he wants. He gaslight me into thinking it was just him being a republican. I don't want to be with him anymore his views make me sick. I am dependent on him due to a disability. The disks in my spine are blown out and I have arthritis. I struggle to do housework and I can't drive. My family won't help me. My bf is the only one who drives me to doctor appointments.