What age did you figure yourself out?

What age did you figure yourself out? Like in terms of style, what makes you happy, what career you actually want, etc. I’m 25 and I feel like I’m on the brink of figuring it out but I’m not fully there. Idk if I should have at least part of it figured out or if nobody knows either?

I feel like a big part of it is not having the money to experiment before. I’m not rich by any means, but I do have money to at least buy a new shirt once in a while or experience something new…

I know I’m not going to wake up one morning and have a light bulb moment, but I guess be able to go about my day knowing I am confident in expressing x, y, z. Writing that out also makes me realize this could fully be a confidence issue lol, but I guess that changes the question to when did you really start to feel confident in yourself?

Posted Jun 3, 2026, 1:46 AM UTC

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