Is it unfair to be upset that my bf (20M) of 18 months didn’t return my (20M) calls so he could play a game
This is just the stupid kind of arguments you have
But My bf said he’d call me after work but I missed his call bc I had to charge my phone. So I called him back 2 minutes later multiple times and asked him to call me just for 2 minutes. He said he had already gotten home and was eating dinner and speaking to someone when I called, and that now it’s time for his game.
I was upset because he chose to get on the game instead of returning my calls when I asked him to put the game down for 2 minutes to speak to me.
He thinks he shouldn’t have to “delay what he wants to do just because I want him to” and that it’s not fair to be upset and I should’ve just asked to call him later.
But I think I obviously should have been put first? We hardly call and I called him way before he got on the game and if I ask for two minutes of his time to call me he shouldn’t start up a game just because he wants to i think I’m being completely reasonable but he swears my argument doesn’t make sense so I’m curious
Posted Jun 3, 2026, 1:48 AM UTC