I really need some advice on this.

I didn't pass 3 of the big 4 with the exception of DLSU. My relatives (one my relatives funds my tuition ever since highschool) has been pressuring me to pass all of the Big 4 Universities although I did sign up for universities such as SBCA and FEU. But they have this very high expectations of me that when I failed to pass UP, Ateneo, and UST that they started to belittle me and my family for pretty much failing CETs.

And with pretty much no options left since they won't accept me going to SBCA due to the added expenses (I tried to compromise by inquiring for a dormitory) but they won't let me for some unknown reasons. I wasn't able to find a scholarship that I could qualify for to reduce the tuition expenses for DLSU. I also wanted to go for FEU Alabang but had to compromise for FEU Silang.

In the end, they really have VERY HIGH expectations where there is no room for even the slightest error. And the hurtful things they said to me and my family really changed my opinion on them.

I'm very thankful for the help they've given me throughout this years but they don't have the right to belittle my family fot such matters.

I'm still working out on what to do with my remaining 3 options (DLSU, FEU, SBCA) and any advice would really help.