Recent hookup

I went on a first date with this one girl from Hinge. I was trying to be more romantic not a horn dog, so everything was going great. She kissed me as the date ended, but then it started into heavy makeout.

Second date was good too, she really loves making out. We move to the backseat and idk about you guys but when its not a hookup or maybe it was just car sex, but I get kind of nervous and dont get fully hard. I was probably like 70% hard (7x6). I made her cum maybe like 4x from fingering and oral. Even though I wasn't fully hard, she still did the thing where shes pushing my hips away as to not go to deep. She came again and that was it for the 2nd date.

3rd date we went to a hotel afterwards. I give the best massages, humble brag 😅. After the massage and foreplay, she was wet enough. This time I was fully hard. Her eyes got big and asked me if I could go slower this time. At first she was enjoying it even though the moans were pain mixed with pleasure, mind you i was going super slow, but I didn't want to go rough or fast. After she came, she was still wet but I was now too big for her. She was more wincing now. She said it was okay, just for me to hurry up and finish. I was trying to but I was concerned for her. I got out and she was super sore. I tried going back in, but she was too sore to go again.

We went out one more time, but nothing sexual this time. I even brought lube to try and make it better. I haven't experienced something like that, like compatibility. Have you guys had something like that, someone that took a while to adjust to your size?