dating advice and an uncomfortable realization

hello! all advice appreciated but prefer advice from people 30+ since im older

ive posted here a while ago, but, just wanted to get some more inputs. so i finally downloaded a dating app (hinge) and just been swiping through women my age, to be honest, ive not actually found any im interested in just due to different lifestyle objectives and various other things. there is no mention of femboy on my profile, im not comfortable putting it on a site like hinge.

there are a few bi-women that i swiped past. now here is the uncomfortable realization. so, i know the group that is the most likely to be accepting of a guy who likes to dress up is bi women, but their profiles are pretty much just so "pride" heavy, politics heavy. like its not a bad thing, i have a pride flag at home (i know femboy doesnt really fall under any of the letters, but i just appreciate the acceptance), a blahaj, etc. but at the end of the day, its not my whole life. i just want a girl who has a completely regular profile, and just has bi as her sexuality. the uncomfortable part is that im effectively bashing the one group id feel safe around

i specifically mention bi, because i dont think id be willing to open up to a straight girl, just too afraid and i would let the crossdressing die if i liked one.

but lets say i wanted to be open about my femboy and crossdressing side, what apps would be good for it