Poll: Do You Need Slaves or Merely Want Slaves?
I'm conducting a poll to better understand the variety of relationships that exist in the Findom World. As a personal note: I am a slave owned by a domme in a TPE dynamic and we were debating whether dommes ***want*** slaves or ***need*** slaves. In Findom these are really Finslaves.
**Background:**
Sometimes the lines of distinction between submissives and slaves get blurred in Findom. But in contrast to submissives, slaves typically offer a more complete and enduring surrender of control to their dominant partner, known as a domme, be she a Princess, Queen, Goddess, or Mistress. The dynamic between a slave and their domme often extends beyond specific scenes or activities, encompassing a broader range of aspects within the partners' lives. Slavery in BDSM and Findom generally involves a more profound, holistic relinquishment of autonomy and decision-making power that may extend beyond the bedroom, with the mistress retaining ultimate authority within the relationship.
Consensual slavery: In consensual slavery, the slave voluntarily surrenders their control to their domme, entering into an agreement based on trust, respect, and communication. The relationship between domme and slave is built on a foundation of ongoing consent, ensuring that both parties feel safe, valued, and content within the established dynamic.
Total Power Exchange (TPE): In a TPE relationship, the slave consents to cede all or many aspects of their autonomy, decision-making, and control to their mistress. This type of arrangement often involves highly detailed agreements outlining the nature of the power dynamic between both parties. It is essential to note that TPE relationships remain rooted in the principles of consent and communication, despite the seemingly all-encompassing nature of the power exchange.
So a question to the dommes of the Findom Universe, are you a slaveowner now? Would you say you want slaves? Or would you say you absolutely need slaves? Or perhaps you don't want any slaves you would prefer to have the traditional submissive?
Please select your category (slaveowner yes/no and want vs. need slaves) in the poll.
Posted Jun 3, 2026, 11:48 AM UTC