Placements that dislike chasing or competing in dating?

Hi everyone, hope everyone is doing good!

I've noticed that when I'm interested in a man, I often lose interest if there are a lot of women pursuing him or if I feel like I have to compete for his attention. If he clearly chooses me, that's different, but I don't enjoy "fighting" for a place in someone's life.

Could placements like a Virgo Moon, Pisces 7th-house energy, Venus in Aquarius 6th house, Mars in Aries, or Saturn in the 8th explain this tendency?

I'd love to hear your thoughts!