Finally happened at 34

I’ve been with my husband for 16 years and we’ve always had a very active sex life and enjoyed sex however I’d never had an orgasm. We had tried toys and I’d tried masturbating however never really getting anywhere. Recently we have gone through quite a lot as a couple which has brought us closer and we’ve been having sex a lot more than we used to… this lead me to have an increased sex drive and I tried to masturbate again .. with a clit sucking vibrator from love honey. At first it felt too intense like I was just peeing every time so I turned the intensity down and kept it in the same position for a LONG time, like 20 mins until I felt this intense build up and I just knew it was going to happen, I then felt about 10 seconds of contractions and pulses and an all over tingling feeling which mustttttt have been it. I couldn’t wait to tell my husband that it finally happened and so then I tried again in front of him and it happened again. I can’t believe after all this time that it just took a lot more patience than I ever gave it before so please don’t give up ladies. I still don’t think I’ll ever come from penetration or just fingers but for now I’m more than happy exploring what works for me. Over the last mont the orgasms have gotten longer lasting and I’ve even come twice within 5 mins , once just with the vibrator and then second straight after with him inside me plus the vibe. Honestly I feel like a new woman and that I’ve had some kind of sexual awakening after thinking I was broken or that it would never happen for me.