31M | Delhi | Looking for something serious that leads to Marriage

Hi everyone,

I’m a 31-year-old software engineer based in Delhi. I did my BTech from a decent college in Delhi and have been working in tech for the last 9 years. Currently earning around 26 LPA.

I also have ADHD and use CBD oil to help manage it, which is one of the reasons I’m choosing to post here instead of taking the traditional matrimonial route.

I come from a liberal family. Both my parents are retired government employees, and I’m an only child. I’ve grown up in an environment where people are encouraged to think for themselves, and that’s something I value a lot.

For the sake of completeness, I’m 5’7” tall, work out regularly, and generally try to maintain a healthy lifestyle. That said, all my discipline tends to take a brief vacation whenever desserts are involved. So while I can be quite committed to fitness, don’t be surprised if you occasionally find me enjoying sweets with the enthusiasm of a child who just discovered a candy store.

Outside work, you’ll usually find me reading, watching a good film or web series, or exploring cities like a local whenever I get the chance. I also cook occasionally, although I should warn you that my willingness to cook is directly proportional to how much I like you. So if I start making elaborate meals, you’ll know things are getting serious—probably more serious than my gym membership.

Personality-wise, I’d describe myself as easygoing, emotionally available, fairly grounded, and an empath. I don’t believe in blindly following herd mentality, and I prefer forming my own opinions after thinking things through. I value mutual respect, honest communication, and showing up for each other during both the easy and difficult phases of life.

What I’m looking for:

• Someone who is working and has her own aspirations

• Someone who can think independently and isn’t afraid to express her views

• Someone who enjoys meaningful conversations and is willing to put effort into building a connection

• Emotional availability and maturity are important to me, and I promise to bring the same to the table

• Someone patient who would be equally happy spending a quiet evening at home together or going out and enjoying parties and social gatherings

Ultimately, I’m looking for a partner rather than just a spouse. Someone who wants to collaborate through life, celebrate the wins together, and navigate the inevitable challenges as a team.

If this resonates with you, feel free to reach out.