Haven’t heard from my narcissistic ex gf of 3 years in a week kind of concerned she doesn’t go quite like this need advice kind of worried what she is up to
so it’s been a week since I have heard from her only way to get ahold of me is now messenger after I changed my number I left the one line open because she stole and sold all my animals but has signed a agreement to pay the value back
what concerns me giving the past with her she doesn’t give up it’s been a week and Iam. not entirely sure she will stay silent indefinitely Iam concerned of what she could potentially do when she finally can’t take not having me not being able to have that control over me anymore she gets pretty desperate and obsessed i haven’t noticed any stalking behavior yet
we lived together for a few years and things went bad she kicked me out then begged me to come back
what do I do to keep myself safe at home where Iam at now I have 3 big dogs and plenty of firepower so at home iam safe but outside of home not quite sure I think this is just a temporary pause a period of calm before a big storm comes and she will go to any lengths to get me and when she doesn’t get her way she may either try to hurt me or worse sort of if i cant have u no one can or she may hurt herself or worse or try to hurt others to get at me
Posted Jun 3, 2026, 11:55 AM UTC