45 [m4m] #Online Looking for Dom

I am 45 years old, five foot six, 182 pounds. I have a masc aesthetic: mustache/facial hair & tattoos.

I tend to have a fun/flirty vibe & I am cute/attractive for my age.

I am not a brat, I love pleasing men.

I am married to a man, we are in an open relationship, however, it is a comfortable type of marriage. He doesn’t fuck me often, he likes to jerk off way more. He does not mind me having another man to control me & my life.

I am looking for the type of dynamic where you train me & teach me what YOU like to please you most. I want a man that I can wake up every day & pleasing them is my purpose.

I am very much hoping to build something long term. I have had four online Doms over a year & a half. I haven’t found exactly the right match yet.

My limits: scat, blood, illegal & you cannot forbid my husband from using me for sex when he likes. (Forbidding me to orgasm during sex is fine).

My interests: orgasm control, chastity (I am almost always caged, wearing it for long stretches, I prefer to forget about it and focus on men’s cocks instead), aesthetic control (haircut, facial hair, body hair), underwear control/wardrobe control, workout & diet control, tasks, chore enforcement, oral, anal (I have several toys), CBT, impact play, watersports, humiliation (done in a sweet way), musk, armpit worship, foot worship, probably more…

But overall I am open to molding my interests towards your kinks.

I tend to text when I can every day & available for tasks/live play weeknights and weekends.

I am OK with an unequal dynamic in communication…so that means me sending you as many photos/videos as you like but maybe I only get a few from you. The same with texts. I tend to really admire & praise the Dom I am serving, so I might text you a lot about how grateful I am, and you might not text as much.

What I am NOT OK with is the complete absence of photos from a Dom. It is not that I think I deserve it, it is that I read a Dom who won’t share photos (unless it’s a mutual kink to serve a “faceless Master”) as insecure. But I have made exceptions. And communication is important to me. I completely understand being on your time line but I will get restless if you just want to “put me away” or ignore me for days on end. If you are the type to nut & “be over it”, I am not the right sub for you.

Ideally what I am looking for is someone understands how to create an “online houseboy/slave” type of dynamic where I am happy to serve you every day in a lasting D/s relationship.

Thanks for reading!!