Bloody jungle feeding the other top

How do I stop jungles just coming into lane to gank but just end up in a bad position and feeding the other top, I'm playing Mundo vs a kayle, which is already a tough match for me I manage to hold the lane, minimal tower damage done, playing smart, just defending and farming, the kayle is good and I can't really poke her to well without a harsh trade, then almost at the absolute worst time the jungle pops in, gets fed on, respawns, comes back dies again and I die as I'm late to the gank from a recall, the Kayle now has a huge level lead and proceeds to just smash the entire lobby, then the jax gets mad, like bro wtf listen to the pings