Sometimes I feel like a lot of universalists are universalists because they just don’t want ECT to be true

I feel like reading a lot of the posts on here are just attacking people who believe in ECT, and saying how horrible it is, as opposed to why universalism is a valid // plausible explanation given the scripture. Obviously not every post is like this or every universalist, but it does make me anxious that I feel some are not looking at everything from an objective view and are trying to put the horse before the carrot if that makes sense. Not to say I don’t understand the desire (or that I’m not a hypocrite in this regard sometimes!) but it’s been something on my mind.