I'm genuinely confused at how people put up with this

4/6 remote raid passes I bought went to waste. 3 of them were lost to Xurkitrees the other week that felt as if they were guaranteed to run away, no matter how many curveball excellent throws I hit with golden razz (which was all of them), and the same story for a Reshiram just now. Seriously, how do you guys put up with this bs?