35 [M4F] #PA/US/Online - Soft Pleasure Dom/Daddy Dom Looking for the Right Sub/Little
Just a soft dom looking for the right sub/little for a monogamous connection, looking for long term, long distance ok, but would prefer to work towards relocation if we do hit it off well enough. Please be located in the U.S.
A bit about me: I work Monday through Friday, with the occasional on call during the weekends. If I am not working I am probably playing games. I'm not really one for going out much, I'm perfectly fine with public spaces and talking to others, I just enjoy the solitude of my own place more. I'm of course 35, live in Western PA myself, 6'0". As I said in the title, I am soft, not looking to be demanding, or control you. I want to find someone to help, guide, protect, and reassure. I am not looking to put someone beneath me, but beside me.
What I am looking for: Cis female, 21 to 28 preferably, I have a thing for girls on the smaller side, please be tiny/petite. Race does not matter to me, but I am partial to both asian and mixed girls. Someone shy/anxious, I absolutely adore it. I don't mind if you wanna hide behind me or have me order your food and what not, actually I would find that adorable. You could be pretty much non-verbal due to shyness/anxiousness and I would be completely fine with it. But with that being said communication is very important, so we would need to find an effective way to communicate. Clingy is also fine by me, you won't hear me complain about someone wanting my attention. I have to have a physical attraction as well as a mental and emotional one, so please match what I am looking for.
Now for kinks you should be into: Diapers (wetting and/or messing is both fine by me), age play, light humiliation/embarrassment, teasing, and denial. I am sure I have others that elude me at the moment, but those are my big ones. As well as I am willing to try or learn new things for you.
Turn offs: blood, pain, cnc, pet play, and degradation. Off the top of my head.
If you match what I am looking for and like what I have to offer I implore you to message me. I won't know you're interested if you don't send me a message even if it's just a "..." or something similar.
Posted Jun 3, 2026, 1:17 PM UTC · locked