Is it just me or it's too hard to find normal guys nowadays

​Im (20M) just putting this out there because I feel kind of isolated and wanted to see if anyone relates.

​Am I the only one who doesn’t really care about the club scene, circuit parties, or hookup culture? Dont get me wrong, no judgment to anyone who loves that life, but I’d honestly prefer just staying in, playing some video games, and watching a movie with a guy who is down to earth and authentic.

​It feels like every guy my age is completely obsessed with looks, gym culture, and social media validation. I’m just a masculine, regular dude with a regular body who doesn't like socializing and chasing 24/7. It feels impossible to find a genuine connection these days where everything isn't about apps or instant gratification.

​does anyone else feel like they don't fit into the typical "community" mold, or am I just looking in the wrong places.. idk what to do