18M4F someone down to earth to consistently chat (and play) with

Im finding most interactions on the app superficial so im on here to try find someone like me. That is someone with high emotional intelligence who is interested in some deep conversations and life in general and wants to regularly chat (being the more important bit) and control or be controlled. I am more of a sub (largely bc app lacks real experience which makes leading in play a lot harder for me)

I am big into communicating and whatnot but i only like 1on1 stuff (ie i dont talk in group channels) bc its too shallow and much better at texting than talking

U can dm (idk how it works but ill figure it out) or comment or whatever to add me.

Im probably looking for somone older cause no one my age matches this (idc), like ur personality is pretty much the only criteria