40 [M4F] #south west suburbs Chicago #Illinois seeking a nursing partner
Hi I am a 40 year old male south west of Chicago. I am 6 foot 2 185 pounds with brown hair and eyes and I wear glasses. I am married, my wife will know about us we are open, and have a daughter. I am drug and disease free. I am generally just a nice down to earth dad. I have a dog and 3 cats as well. I work as a nuclear security guard at night, not as glamorous as it sounds, but it’s a really good job.
I can host sometimes depending on timing or we can get a hotel or your place. I will prefer that we meet at a neutral location first.
Hobbies: I love racing, hence the name. I watch everything from sports cars to formula 1 to Indy car. I love baseball too and love going to cubs games. Along with the racing I sim races as well on PlayStation and once a month I meet with a work group of friends to race, or crash, mostly crash. I play other video games too and currently am playing dragon quest. I watch anime sometimes as well, I like one piece, frieren, and Dandadan. I am a big Disney nerd and enjoy going to Disney world once a year. I also like watching documentaries and different movies, not a horror fan though. Hopefully we have a few things in common.
What I’m looking for: I would like to find a friend or perhaps a girlfriend of sorts. I like calm gentle women, kinda mom types. I don’t care about body type at all. Age also isn’t a factor as long as you are over 18. I don’t mind if you are married since I am as well. I am looking to add to what I have not to replace anything if that makes sense. I love anr, but I want connection, the feeling of being more than just a couple. For me anr is very personal and it brings you closer together, it’s that closeness that I crave. I love the cuddling and the skin to skin contact where not a word is spoken and it’s all about relaxation and calming.
Sexual and kinks: ok so obviously we both like breast play and nursing. I don’t mind wet or dry nursing. I have tasted my wife’s milk and it was very sweet. I love gentle kissing and I like to be held and caressed. I am a bit submissive especially in this situation. I prefer a gentle type dom though, if you are degrading or mean that’s a big no for me. I love giving and receiving oral. I like boob jobs as well. I am ok with being tied up and light bdsm. I can switch so in the right situation I am ok with tying you up as well. I have a kink for furry pussies as well, if you shave it’s fine. I think I like it because it seems more mature. I am also good with foot play like foot jobs and sucking toes. I love being licked too like my body and face.
I want you to be comfortable with me, so hopefully this can be a fun nurturing adventure for both of us. I don’t want any kind of kink dispenser. I want a real genuine relationship, friend and caring companion. I have a great fulfilling life and this is going to be another part of that. I would like this to be long term, because for it to work it needs to be. I really hope you like me and give me a shot, I really am a pretty awesome guy.
Posted Jun 3, 2026, 1:24 PM UTC