43 [M4F]-Hello Reddit my old friend, it’s time for me to post again…

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So clearly I’m not new to this, I’ve had a couple of decent connections in my time here, but nothing that had any serious long term potential. I’ve had experiences where the emotional attraction was very strong, but the physical didn’t match at all. Or the opposite, a strong physical attraction, but no substance other than that. I want both, and I dont think that’s too much to aim for. I’m happy to exchange pics early to avoid that potential letdown. 

I’m a married dad of two little boys (9 and 4), living in New York. Ideally you’ll also be a parent and also live in EST. 

I have the physical attributes that many find desirable, as I’m tall and cute. I have a lot of different interests, so it should be pretty simple for us to find plenty of common ground. We can talk movies, music, art or sports. I also enjoy working with my hands (painting, drawing, woodworking).

As for the type of woman that I’m looking for, physically there’s no real prerequisites. From a personality standpoint, a sense of humor is absolutely essential. I’m rarely serious, so someone that is also silly is very important. Also, being objectively kind is a must. I’ve talked to some people on here that are really not pleasant people. 

I also have pretty open availability, so you should too. Exchanging a few messages throughout the day, or disappearing for the weekend is not ideal for me. So if you’ve got the time to devote to really building something special, I’m a pretty damn good investment if I do say so myself.

So take the chance, send an introduction. I can promise that I’ll go out of my way to make sure it’s not a waste of your time. 

*notabot

Posted Jun 3, 2026, 1:27 PM UTC

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