34 [M4F] Looking to share beta moments and talk about the thrill of losing out. Share your side of similar stories as well?

I’m a guy who is starting to accept how much my beta tendencies actually excite me. Some memories keep coming back that used to sting but now turn me on. I’ve realized I enjoy that feeling of coming in second and being overlooked.

What really interests me is hearing from women who are into the other side of this. Have you ever teased a beta guy, kept him in that friendzone spot, or taken advantage of the situation for your own fun? I’d love to hear your stories too, whether they’re similar or something I wouldn’t expect. This doesn’t have to be one sided. We can share experiences, judge the situations lightly, laugh about them, or even create new scenarios together.

Women around their 30s-ish are my preference, though I’m flexible if the vibe really matches. If we’ve chatted spicy topics before, feel free to reach out again.

Tell me your ASL in your first message. Tell me your favorite color bra so I know you read this. What’s a time you had a beta guy wrapped around your finger, and how did you handle it?