20 minutes late guy

not sure why I’m so stuck on this saga but so many parts of it have me dissecting. I feel like esan recapping her videos

•They make plans for Monday, he says they’ll go to a wine bar (read her profile, check)
He gives her two options for places he likes (initiative in planning, check)
•The two places he gives are in his part of town
•“He never asked me where I lived” (is chill cool girl doesn’t bitch about this out loud but she’s startin’)
•She likes the places but mehhhhhhh (jez’s way or the highway, check)
•She suggest a place that likes to go to on a first date (assuming it’s probably closer to her…)

•schedules a waymo (idk this seems a bit much and her expectations is that everyone should be just like her in this way)
•she tells us she’s about to get in the waymo and checks her hinge and there’s a message from him eta 6:20 (communicates timing.. not greatly I’ll admit but, check)
•she never actually disclosed when that message came in, did she? (What if it was at 5:50 and there’s traffic, or something, whatever??)

•she makes a tiktok video while waiting on him and it blows up, and so many comments tell her she’s exhausting. And it is, so draining, to listen to her in this context
•she later in a tiktok video titled that, mentions she forgets his name on the date (sure Jan). Idk jez but I know Jez…and this girl was 100% looking at his hinge so many times in that 20 minutes and talking herself into ‘he’s so beautiful’ ‘can’t believe he wants to come meet me for a date’, you KNOW HIS NAME. She does not have a roster of guys talking to her currently where that’s a possibility you thought he was Jacob or Steven or Paul. It’s one guy lol
Also, the way she couldn’t think of a fun flirty way for him to say it first, I’m disappointed

•kept him on hinge to see if he would reply hehehee. He had already rejected her but she had hope. Finally unmatched (she is sooooo powerful and holding her standards and not settling)
•Claims he was nervous (because why would anyone he disinterested in HER)

I can’t even get started on the voice memos (and how she also expects everyone to be just like her.) Mentions it again later in the name story.

I just spent way too much time writing this all out and am going to go touch grass now bye 😅 shit just doesn’t make sense to me but I’ll never understand this girl