Book rec that’s not “quit lit!”

I started listening to Atomic Habits by James Clear on a long car ride, and while I was actually trying to use it to help me deal with an overwhelming workload, I saw a lot of things that would have helped me while I was trying to stop drinking. A couple of things that stuck out to me were:
The plateau of latent potential: small changes consistently accumulate without the benefits registering, and people get discouraged, often giving up. However, there is eventually a “breakthrough” point, which is a lot like the sobriety date for me. My sobriety date is fairly recent, but it does not reflect the 2+ years I put in reducing my intake, going for months without a drink before caving, etc.
Identity-based habits: this was a turning point for me, when i went from declining a drink casually to saying, “No thanks, I don’t drink.” When I realized that I was actually a non-drinker, it was a big shift in my mindset. Honestly one of the most important components of my sobriety.
Anyway, I’m only about a quarter of the way in, but there is a lot of great stuff. Sharing is caring!

Posted Jun 3, 2026, 11:37 PM UTC

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