39 [M4F] #New York - Artsy and nerdy single guy with a really big penis, seeking a size queen (or someone size curious)
The size of my penis has created dating/relationship challenges for me in the past, so I’m hoping I can meet someone here who enjoys and prefers a larger size. Finding compatibility in dating isn’t an easy task as many of us know, but it would be nice for me not to have to worry about this aspect with a potential someone.
I’ve gotten various reactions, both good and bad, about being hung from past partners: “I wish your dick was smaller like my ex’s”, “it feels like you’re splitting me in half”, “ I never knew I had so many nerve endings”, “pornstar cock”. The one constant I’ve noticed is that when I first begin to slide inside her…her eyes clench shut, she opens her mouth as big as her jaw can stretch, and she doesn’t make a sound.
More about me:
Single white male. Creative professional with an arts and design background, living alone in Southern Westchester County NY, just north of NYC. Easy train ride to and from the city, and I work in Manhattan most weekdays.
A bit nerdy, very into the arts, exploring new ideas, and getting lost in conversation.
Physically active, but I don’t really have a preference whether or not you are
Very considerate of the emotional well being of a partner, both in and out of the bedroom. Sexy fun only works when it’s built on a foundation of mutual trust, respect, consideration, appreciation, and a broader sense of enjoying time together. Consent should be enthusiastic consent.
Appreciative of healthy boundaries. My hope for any type of connection here, whether it’s a short term or long term, is that it’s a rewarding use of time within our busy lives, and a connection doesn’t compromise or intrude on those other good things we enjoy outside of that (That includes any personal space and inner peace)
A bit more on the sexy stuff: I’m not solely focused on penetration and orgasm like other guys might be. I’m interested in creating a fun and trusting connection where sexual pleasure is part of an overall vibe of connection and mutual enjoyment. Serious about sexual health (tested and negative), and I insist on using condoms (although I buy custom sized ones from a company online because all the drugstore condoms are too snug). Very into kissing and foreplay (which is essential being well endowed because I need as much lubrication as I can muster). As a ravenous boob guy, I’m looking for a woman who relishes breast play and wants a man who will suck on her nipples to his heart’s content.
If any of this stuff resonates with you and you live in the New York Tri-state area, please feel free to reach out and say hi! And thanks for reading through my post!
Posted Jun 3, 2026, 11:39 PM UTC · locked