2021 SR+ Suspension upgrade?

I’m looking for advice on upgrading the suspension on my M3. I purchased the car for my long commute & the ride quality isn’t as good as I was hoping for. In the same breath I’d like to lower it just a little & put on some aftermarket wheels. I’ve seen lots of options & all claim they’re an improvement, but I wanted to ask here to get some real world recommendations.

TIA