AIO at long distance BF "expecting an apology" over me asking a question late at night.

AIO at long distance BF "expecting an apology" over me asking a question late at night.

Here is his text to me:

"When you calm down I expect an apology for doing that. Asking such a loaded question in the middle of the night when I'm already exhausted and you're in your ludial phase is nothing but looking for trouble. It helped no one when we're both at a low point and that was ridiculous I wasn't even paying that much attention and you threw me so off guard"

For context:

We live in 2 different times zones, he's 3 hours ahead of me. It was around midnight HIS time. We were chilling in a discord call, reading AIOs actually, and a comment mentioned something called "DARVO" so I looked it up and read it to him. After reading it, I asked "Is this something I do?" Because he has claimed I'm manipulative before. He got upset after I asked saying "it's late" and how dare I bring this up at this time of night. And when I said "Okay, whatever, goodnight" he said "we're done with this conversation" and I hung up. After that, above is what he replied with.

At this point ... I'm getting sick of the way this man speaks to me. I have yet to reply to this message. I can't even bring myself to think of how to reply to this lol thoughts?