39 [M4f] #online #virginia I need to control you, all of you. Are you ready? Seeking a TPE slave to utterly control.

Time after time, I re-examine my kinks and see that control is the clear leader. Not humiliation, which arouses me as you blush. Not sadism, which thrills mean when you gasp. Not even orgasm denial, which gives me immense pleasure as you throb in frustration. No, it is the grip on you, dear slave, that gives me the most satisfaction.

Holding your leash tightly, applying swift and harsh correction, ensuring you know what is expected, and providing direction to your life. This is what soothes my soul. All the rest is just trappings and decorations. What I need most, is you, all of you, as much as I can get.

I've been in the BDSM space since I was 18, on chatrooms and through various platforms. Do you remember Collarme before it became Collarspace? Yahoo and AIM chatrooms? Secondlife and so on? My arousal and fetishes have always been in this realm for as long as I can remember. Going without feels like abandoning part of myself.

Life has its twists and turns, never being in 5 years, let alone 20, what you imagined it might be. I work in a technical field, I enjoy my vanilla hobbies of DND and gaming, I try to write for fun, but it is only when I have a leash in my hand that I feel whole.

As a dominant, I am strict but empathetic; I seek to understand the why before applying correction. My methods are harsh but practical; one learns the fastest when they understand the expectations and consequences. When all is said and done, we are here for our satisfaction and enjoyment, if you cannot find that, then why continue?

What I need from you is an eager mind, ready to be molded and shaped. Someone who understands their desires and craves to be on her knees. You don't need experience, I have plenty for both of us, but you do need to know that you need to serve. If you are sassy but respectful, you'll thrive. If you try to top from the bottom, brat, or introduce ddlg/abdl elements, you'll fail.

Physically, I am 5'9" and slender at 155lbs. Thinning brown hair, bright blue eyes, and a magnificent smile. I am fully aware that I am not everyone's cup of tea and that's okay. We all have our preferences after all. Mine is for someone who is under 200lbs; as a lover of video calls and photos, it is a struggle to connect to someone who has an apron belly.

If you read all that, thank you. I tend to ramble on when given the runway. There is absolutely more to say and I can't wait to meet you, whomever you are. If you wish to chat, only reach out and I will take it from there. Don't be afraid of the intensity, only of the silence. Live without regrets and be curious.