I've got a plan
So, for some context I'm 18M and in talking to this girl right now, let's call her Faye (18F).
I've known her for about 2 years, but I've only been talking to her properly for the last 2 weeks or so. Now when I say known, I mean like we were very close acquaintances. She was in my form and we talked quite a lot, she was an ambassador with me on opening evenings and we spent quite a bit of time together, her friend group is linked to ours through a few people etc etc...
For some more context, I've never had a girlfriend π . The only time I could've I ended up rejecting her cause I found out that earlier that day she broke up with one of my friends to ask me out and I don't stand with that but that's not important.
So anyways, we've been talking a lot these past weeks since I finally decided to go for it and it's honestly been really lovely. There's been a lot of shared sweet moments, we have quite a lot of inside jokes, there's been a few nights where we've been up for hours talking to each other and making each other laugh and whatnot, been no.1 on each others best friend list for 2 weeks, apologising for not replying earlier, saying goodnight to each other etc etc there's loads smore other things but I think it's going great. When her closest friend found out about me (on accident), she was quite proud to admit it.
So following this, this Tuesday I asked her after a lot of overcoming fear that we should revise together sometime. She said yes***, but she couldn't do most days because of further maths exams so she found a date she could do and proposed we go then. That date is this coming Monday.
I'm really nervous for this cause I'm pretty scared to mess this up so I came to ask.
I'm planning on this day to drop in a sentence like 'I just enjoy talking to you you know' , or another similar to that nature.
Bear in mind I haven't said something like this to her before
Is this a good idea or is this way too early?? I've never really been in this spot before so I don't have any experience to draw from here.
Also side note but any tips on breaking the ice between text and real life would be much appreciated. Proofreading this whole thing I've actually kept it quite brief there's lots of details so if you want specifics don't be afraid to ask π
***SECOND side note, the way she said this was kinda strange. She messaged me "Yeah sure why not", then 5 minutes later she said "I think it will be fun" which is not normal for her to space out replies that much and I really don't know what this means π.
Posted Jun 3, 2026, 11:47 PM UTC