Introvert shy type wife or gf

For introverted or shy wives and girlfriends, what are your sexual desires? Many of you are just quiet about it. You may not like public displays of affection, but what do you desire when you have alone time with your partner? And if your partner is not around and you feel turned on, what do you usually do? Do you watch something? Do you search for anything? I hope you can share your thoughts or experiences. I’d appreciate any insights.