They aren't joking when they say how expensive/crazy the first year is

Bought in January and its now May and its been a rollercoaster. Bought a 100 year old home that had been renovated to the studs including a new roof. AC broke on inspection day which was actually great bc losing that after closing would have sucked.

Since moving in:

Agreed inspection repairs were still not done the morning of closing. Seller agreed to pay an electrician while we sat at the closing table so I could have the work completed. Electrician then had a family crisis and took 2 months and several reschedules to show up. Then I had to pay a second electrician to come out and finish the work he left undone.

Planned $4k tree removal took twice as long bc accessing the area was harder than expected and resulted in the team FLIPPING A CRANE. Thankfully no one was hurt.

Found termites in a headboard I bought. House is thanfully fine but I FREAKED.

New foundation problems that were not caught by my inspector even though I specifically hired a structural engineer familiar with historic homes.

Roof rats got into my attic.

And I just filed a home insurance claim because a licensed contractor left an open drain pipe in my wall after removing a half bath for me. Right now I am in tears over possible structural and needing to replace likely all the flooring in my house due to my open floor plan and my LVP being discontinued with no available matches. And I live in a state where insurance is expensive and hard to get.

I have considered hiring individuals from various faiths to bless or exorcise my home.

And doing this as a single woman with no family in the state has been extra levels of stress. I sit on my porch and try to be grateful and hopeful for future years if peace, but I will say, I miss renting most days.