Reflecting on my 10 year old kitty for pride month
About 10 years ago give or take a month I had GRS with Dr Chettawut in Thailand using the non-penile inversion technique. I had the idea to make this post last night whilst in the afterglow of multiple orgasms, primarily to share my experiences and maybe help others, although this post won't be a how to guide as most of my info is rather out of date.
Starting with the important bits - yes multiple sequential orgasms are a thing and in my experience the only limiting factor is either my fingers and arms get tired or my vibrator runs out of battery. For people wondering about natural lubrication it is initially limited and I need to use lube to begin with although after my first orgasm I get super wet and it smells very faintly of chlorine and doesn't taste bad.
Also I can confirm that you can cum so hard that your legs stop working, I read a lot of romance and I initially thought this was one of those romance tropes. Although I can barely remember what a "male" orgasm feels like especially because I had surgery in my very early 20s, the ones I have now are really insanely intense. My record is 6 in a row and I can tell you it left me boneless and unable to move for about 10min.
In terms of partners I primarily sleep with people who do not identify as cis men because I feel safer but I have gone to straight bars to pick up guys and they can't tell. I'm not sure if this is because men don't know what a kitty looks like or if my designer one simply looks amazing.
I'm not sure if anyone else has had similar experiences but I found my sexuality has "matured" I haven't sought out a long term partner and I don't think I ever will, I'm happy with my dog and if I want a sexual partner I can get one in the short term.
I won't share any pictures, mostly becasue I am writing this on my work PC and I really don't want those pictures on here, but more because I haven't taken any for years. Like most new kitty owners I showed everyone and anyone who wanted to see and acted like a total slag. Now though it's simply a part of me not dissimilar to ones arm or leg.
Finally, did getting GRS make me happy - yes, but it didn't "fix" me. All it really did was let me feel comfortable in my own skin and give me the confidence to be who I am. Personally I don't really care if I get clocked as gender diverse and tbh it's only other gender and sexually diverse people who clock me.
With hindsight and what I know now, I would always do it again.
Posted Jun 3, 2026, 11:48 PM UTC