35 [M4F] Charleston #WV - Looking for a Connection, a Friend, and Happiness

I've been with my wife for around 8 years now, and being up front, I don't want to change my situation at least as of now. I'm mainly looking for someone who want's to build a connection, become very good friends / best friends, someone I can be happy with, and of course intimate with.

I'm hoping to find someone who is close enough (or reasonable driving distance) by to hang out with, go on dates together, someone who enjoys me as much as I enjoy them. I want to be able to smile again and do that for someone else as well, I want someone who I get butterflies in my stomach for when talking or being near one another. Ideally I'd like to have something major in common, I work in the Video Game Industry (also my biggest hobby) if that's something you're into. I also love hiking, swimming, going to rock concerts or festivals, or just being adventurous in general. I love just about all genres of movies and TV as well. I wouldn't be opposed to trying whatever your hobby is either or learning something new entirely. I should also mention that I'm a night owl.

Right now my wife comes home from work (which is her life anymore,) watches TV, and goes to bed. She has no interest in doing anything outside of that. The bedroom is totally dead, and I feel I'm at the age where I need to start reaching out for happiness and to have my needs met. Maybe you feel the same way, maybe you just aren't satisfied or having your needs met, maybe you just aren't getting the attention you want, hell maybe you are single and just find my post interesting or want to be with a married man. Whatever your situation is, I won't judge and will accept you for it. I'm very easy to get along with, can hold a conversation. I can assure you I can keep this a secret between us, won't ghost you, and will be honest with you about everything up front.

I'm 6'1 tall, 225lbs, white, no facial hair, I'm clean, I don't smoke cigs or anything (do love a gummy though,) I have no substance abuse issues, and have no kids. If you find me interesting or would like to chat, even if you are still on the fence about having an affair, tell me something about yourself or ask any questions you may have!